Put Me
in Coach, I'm Ready to Play
Mentoring for Rehabilitation Leaders
By Cary Griffin at The Rural Institute
Why on earth does Tiger Woods have a coach? Woods is perhaps the
greatest living golfer, having achieved more in his young life than
most professional golfers accomplish in a lifetime. What Tiger Woods
knows is what so many leaders and career-trackers know: advice and
support from an experienced coach, or mentor, are powerful tools
for improvement.
The Industrial Society reports in a 1999 study
that over 80% of 300 companies surveyed found that coaching and
mentoring improved their employee performance and profitability.
Coaching, (which by definition focuses on achieving specific goals)
and mentoring (which focuses on open and evolving issues) are
closely related activities, and for the purposes of this short
article are considered synonymous. HR Quarterly reports that business
and executive coaching are the most effective tools leaders have
for achieving sustainable growth, change, and the development
of quality staff, teams, and organizations.
Many of us use coaches, and quite a few of us
provide coaching to others, as we grow to understand the importance
of that role. I learn as much as I teach from several people I
mentor. My long-term mentor works in the rarified air of a multi-national
corporation, but he knows leadership and complexity, and offers
regular down-to-earth advice and counsel. I use him regularly
as a sounding board and external conscience. I have many friends
and colleagues as well, whom I rely on for guidance and decision-making.
I have always found that my personal and professional network
is a priceless resource that sustains me when hard decisions have
to be made.
I am always shocked to find how few upper-level
managers and executive directors in our field have mentors. Through
numerous conversations I have learned that many of us work in
isolation; we guard our indecision and confusion about complex
problems; or we rely on our peers for guidance. Of course, our
peers are often just as sheltered from support. Such isolation
leads to routine, and often bad, decision-making; status quo preservation;
restrained risk-taking; and internal focus instead of community
building. The challenges that now face the rehabilitation field
are enormous and we all need assistance and thought-provoking
guidance from smart people.
There are many places to look for a coach. There
are professional coaches: my friend and colleague Katherine Carol
at Tango Consulting (www.tangoconsulting.org)
is one of the best. There are Service Corps of Retired Executive
(SCORE) (www.score.org)
members who can fit this role. There are friends and family, your
banker, local entrepreneurs, and politicians. People love to give
advice, so look for people who make tough and successful decisions
in their lives and ask if they might help you.
Still not convinced? Here are a few more reasons
to find a mentor or coach:
A supportive coaching relationship makes it
more likely that you will be supportive of others in return.
Ever struggle with staff retention? Coaching on your part, and
throughout an organization, can create a welcoming environment
that increases staff stability and improves morale.
Coaching increases your political savvy; it
teaches you to slow down and consider the consequences of your
actions; it improves your negotiation and problem-solving skills
by offering you a confidential environment for exploring problems
and solutions.
Coaching improves your communication skills
through the repeated exercise of explaining difficult information
to an outsider.
Coaching improves your conflict management
skills because good mentors will question your motivation for
action (revenge, punishment, power politics) and will offer
advice on anxious situations. Sometimes the simple act of talking
with your coach buys you time and lets the situation cool down.
Coaching forces you to confront your motivations
and beliefs, thereby forcing you to check your integrity and
honesty.
Coaching illustrates to others who look up
to you that asking for guidance and advice is a superior way
of managing; it builds team work and collegiality and helps
destroy class warfare in organizations.
Coaching broadens your vision and compels
smart strategy. Getting advice and counsel forces you to look
at other perspectives and approaches to similar challenges.